As I think back on patients I've worked with over the years, many of the young women in their mid-twenties who suffered from serious and extreme forms of anorexia or bulimia came to me because someone who loved them found me. I have been "found" by mothers, sisters and friends.
These people find my writings on the Internet and read them thoroughly. They send my writings that seem most relevant to the person they love. They speak to the person they love and impart their love and great concern. They suggest, beg or plead for the person to contact me.